As a devoted husband, father, teacher, mentor, pastor, and entrepreneur, I, Alexander L Motley, Sr. am dedicated to the

liberation and transformation of the total man (spirit, soul, body). My passion was birth out of the loss of my father

(the late Joseph Motley Sr.) to kidney failure at the age of four.  The emptiness of this loss left me with an identity crisis

which lead me on a personal quest to discover my life's purpose, value, and relevance to impact my generation. In search

of my identity I looked to external help through family, friends, jobs, careers, drugs, alcohol, and relationships, yet still no

answers or clarity.  Ultimately I became very frustrated and went into depression. This caused me to look within for 

internal spiritual help of which I was no stranger too thanks to a very loving and devoted mother (the late Dr. Beatrice Motley-

Cole) that raised me to an awareness and a relationship with God through the holiness church (COGIC).

 

The church served as the foundation of who I am and revealed a divine calling on my life. Before I could fully realize who i am and my WHY in life, I transitioned into a life of serving people in the church and in the market place with the addition of titles and positions. Titles and positions in of itself is not a bad thing because it is necessary for structure and order, but having titles and positions before fully knowing who you are and your purpose in life, can serve as an incarceration instead of elevation and lead to frustration, depression and self-destruction. In order to bring clarity and balance to my life I had to separate my person from my positions. This lead me on a path of purpose and liberation.

 

The turning point that transformed my life came from God through a revelation from a proverb (Proverb 23:7) that states, "As a man thinks in his heart, so is he:". This let me know that I am what I think about and if i wanted to change who I am and my current conditions, I would have to change how I think. This revelation was the foundation and birth of the Thought Life Transformation System (TLTS) and path to mental wellnes,

 

The transformation of my life has been the inspiration to become a Transformational Life Coach. My theological training (BTH., BA., MDIV.) in addition to a Holistic Life Coach Certification and Peer Recovery Certification, are valuable tools to assist me in Coaching the TLTS. The TLTS has afforded me to discover my holistic purpose in life while discovering the Most Valuable Person in me that I might share mental wellness value to others.

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